The funny thing is I didn't run a moneyslavery site when I met any of them and I don't really think any of them would label themselves as money slaves. they are true submissives (regardless of what some of them would like to think) and they want to make sure I am taken care of because they consider Me their Mistress or Owner, etc.
I just got to know these guys in the usual ways (usual for D/s) and soon compliments turned into gifts and gifts turned into money. First the money was an amount they decided because they still wanted to maintain some sort of control but as they got more comfortable with me that changed. I went from collecting a portion of their checks each week to basically just collecting their checks, or at least much of their extra income.
***sidenote (sorry I know this doesn't go with the flow of conversation but I received the package in the mail earlier today so I'm pretty psyched)
One of My boys overnights his signed check to Me every payday and waits to see how much I am going to mail back to him to live on for the next 2 weeks. I absolutely LOVE getting his check in the mail. And in this instance it really is more than just the money that makes Me so happy. I know cash/cashiers checks/etc are better as far as taxes go but signing his actual check seems more personal/real? that I can't describe it as anything but the powerful high of control and that in itself is enough to make Me wet and gushing with joy. I know exactly how many hours he's worked and to the penny how much he has earned for Me. There isn't any hidden income or overtime that I am not aware of. I know without any doubt that he truly works just for Me. he begs for any overtime he can get as is proven by his paystub and finds ways of cutting corners so he can save a few dollars without Me knowing and surprise Me with gifts here and there. he really is special. At first he would only send his mid-month check since all his major bills are due in the beginning of the month and he couldn't chance Me not sending his allowance. But now I get both
It is a powerful, exhilarating feeling and super sexy, lol. I always imagine him leaving the post office with his heart pounding, fingers crossed, and feeling utterly vulnerable. That's ownership I know he is counting on Me to do the right thing and send him enough to cover his rent, car payment, etc. but in the back of his mind (or probably the only thing on his mind, lol) is that there is a chance I may short him or not send anything at all and how fucked he would be if that happens. Luckily (or not so luckily) for him I know that I don't benefit from cutting off My own resources. Besides, I doubt he will dry up anytime soon.
Okay back to what I was talking about...
The reason I mention any of this is because the slaves I am used to (D/s) worship Me and give Me what I want or as much as they can without making a game of it. The goal is to commit to something deep and meaningful. For them the reward is actually in being allowed to serve a Woman and will naturally pay for Her to have a nice life, or at least it has been in My experience. they seem to expect much less in terms of coaxing and demanding then the Ms's do which is really puzzling to Me. Of course I am only referring to lifers not weekenders.
I think the biggest difference I've noticed is that the D/s's want to give Me their money and the M/s's want Me to try and get it? Does that seem like a fair assessment? I don't know if what I'm experiencing is typical but in the D/s world slaves come to Me and hope that I will accept them. they send a tribute with their introduction letters (or soon after if we seem compatible) and are usually very humble. they usually don't take My time for granted whether we are just chatting about everyday stuff or if things get more intense. But, since engaging in the Ms community it seems like the expectation is for the Girl to practically beg for money and treat every guy like a Loooser! Or, I've just seen a lot of ads and posts to that effect that I'm wondering if there is anything else to it anymore.
I am probably wrong in thinking so but I thought there was more of a desire for long-term dependency and the sensation of not having a choice but to pay. That is what intrigued about Ms in the first place or that was the understanding I had of it anyways. I am definitely the type of person that is more turned-on by blackmail and feeling like I'm so in control of someone that they are afraid not to do what I say. And, it's absolutely the control aspect of things that does it for Me, but obviously there's a lot of trust that has to take place for that to work.
To be clear, I am being sincere in asking not judgmental. It's very foreign to Me to be approached by someone and then expected to prove Myself to him. Didn't he come to Me? lol. and it's always with the same vain of 'I have lots of money so you are going to have to earn it' attitude. It's like if some guy I never even made eye contact with at a club just sits down at My table and says I might buy you a drink later but I'm going to sit here all night before I decide. lol, I'm not desperate guys! I've actually done pretty well for Myself. I don't know if this type of money waving technique is something that is common or if I just get annoyed easily but the way I see it is if you come to Me then you are the one that has to prove you are 'real'. The best way to do that is to not get on My bad side right away and also make any kind of gesture first whether it's a gift or a tribute, buying something from My store, etc. Like most other Girls I am busy and I'm not going to spend a lot of time communicating with someone that hasn't done anything to get My attention.
OMG It's way later than I thought! I have to get out of here. I'll finish this another time. I hope this has made sense so far since I don't have time to proofread before posting. I'll edit later.
Off to make someones weekend memorable
Melanie
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